Phoo, a good day today, just a blip of a bad moment.
D8 told me that she was snuggling in W's bed last night, and W was telling her BFF on the phone how when she says "Mmm-hmm" the OM goes really loud, "MMMMMMMMM-HMMMMMM". D8 said W thought it was funny...
I just kind of sat there for a minute, and was like, "Is this third grade?" Is this the kind of thing that passes for "love" now? Am I wrong in thinking that it's laughably shallow?
Then, luckily, about 30 seconds later, I realized I didn't really care - and if that's the relationship W has with OM, it's really sort of pathetic!
I did find out too that W has OM over on Wed nights, but doesn't go on dates - although theoretically they could date between 11pm and 7am on the weekends.
I had to think back and realized W is REALLY struggling in her schooling, and Wed nights are one of her biggest study nights - well, DUH! Now, D8 tells me that OM and W are taking their collective kids to Magic Mountain tomorrow night - yet W was crying to me last night about how she was failing her practice exam.
And to think, I actually felt a little sorry for her. Well, stupid me!
In other news, I think W may be coming off her midlife crisis a bit. D8 said she dyed her hair back to it's normal color, and got it trimmed up so she can grow it out.
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Don't worry - my attitude is still good. I'm amazed at my strength - it did bother me a little to hear D8 tell that story, but then I realized how stupid it was, and I just laughed at myself. It would have bent me all out of shape before! The best thing too is that D8 wanted to talk to me - I didn't ask HER for any news!