1) It's ok to be both. 2) stop feeling sorry for yourself, and life improves. 3) it's ok to feel sorry for yourself for a LITTLE while. 4) screw everyone and be selfish.
1) Good because I don't think I will ever change. 2) Ouch... 3) I'm working on that. I just have up days and down days. I am feeling sorry for myself because I have made so many changes in my life in the last few days and I am trying to adapt to them. 4) Mach won't let me screw anyone...he says I have to leave my phone down and I can't make any calls. Isn't being selfish wrong though? Aren't our spouses being selfish? Why would I want to be like my stbx?
