T2,

1) It's ok to be both.
2) stop feeling sorry for yourself, and life improves.
3) it's ok to feel sorry for yourself for a LITTLE while.
4) screw everyone and be selfish.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet