"I was wondering if you were ever going to figure out that they can't chase you until you are heading AWAY from them.(and mean it) Follow reality. Reality says chasing and pursuing does not work. Trying harder doesn't work. Telling them you have changed does not work. Listen to reality. It will lead you in the right direction.....
Nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who is confident, self assured, doesn't chase and fall all over her and is going somewhere with his life and shows her he can and will live perfectly fine without her... The train has left the station."
I thought it a fitting reminder to myself. But I also know that GAL is not about getting her to chase me, but rather for me to find myself and be a confident, happy, strong man.
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I also agree that they have walked away think that they have left things behind. I know now that it doesn't work that way.
At the end of all this, WE are the ones that have done the work, we have looked inside and seen what we were and where we were. Now we are in a position to take this knowledge into the world and in my case, just try to help others to get there.
MWD says that in the DB book. They take their unhappiness with them, the sad thing is we can't tell them that, no matter HOW much we love them.
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