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Now I too will say sorry for swiping your thread T2.


No worries my dear...what are friends for?

I have swiped your thread many times...(we won't count how many though).

I truly hope you work things out. I don't like seeing you so upset. \:\(

Doubt I'm much help but you know where to reach me if you need anything.











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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Telling them they need to do something...how effective was that on you Amy.

And by the way WTF is wrong today Amy?


There is nothing wrong with me except for that post I originally replied to seems to suggest that everything trapt does or says should be weighed against how "effective" it might be.

A MLCer lacks respect generally but she'll damn sure lack it if he were to bend over backwards and kiss her ass.

There is nothing wrong with keeping it real, which is what I see him doing.

I am not advocating being a jerk or him raising hell with her because, yes, that would be entirely counterproductive. But he's doing fine not letting her strip his manhood away from him, which MLC/WAWs have quite a knack for doing.

I think trapt strikes a fairly decent balance between DBing and not letting himself get sucked in between the industrial strength fan blades that we call MLC.

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Jimbo...I am going to be meeting up with a "guest speaker" as he calls himself tonight. I'm a little nervous about it. I was told to ask you if it is worth going.

I also asked if I needed a saftey helmet because I think it is going to be a bumpy ride. Will I need one?

He may...he hasn't dealt with anyone as stubborn as me before.

See Jack...bitchy and stubborn, I am two for two today.











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And I think he did great right up until he told her that she needed to figure something out about her.

This is me, when do I say "Act like you have no backbone?"

Today is an off day...



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T2,

1) It's ok to be both.
2) stop feeling sorry for yourself, and life improves.
3) it's ok to feel sorry for yourself for a LITTLE while.
4) screw everyone and be selfish.



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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
And I think he did great right up until he told her that she needed to figure something out about her.



What is so wrong with that?











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calling the crazy lady crazy usually doesn't help.



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I agree........She is having a hard enough time dealing with her own emotions......let alone how HE sees her.

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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
calling the crazy lady crazy usually doesn't help.


But he wasn't calling her crazy...he just said she needed to figure something out about her.

Crap...now I forgot what exactly he said but you can't walk on eggshells all the time. Sometimes even a MLC person needs to be told to step back and think about things.











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He did...symantics...and then he said (paraphrasing) you need to figure out what is wrong with you because you keep doing this.



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