I have been separated from my husband for three years. We had a marriage in name only. Throughout the last three years he has not called me once regarding relationship. I have filed for a divorce and, will go to court in March. A few weeks and ago I needed money and called him. He came and gave me money. Also, fixed a flat tire for me. I tried to talk to him a few days ago about some kind of closure. We got nowhere.He says that he loves me with the love of the Lord and, that he will help me when I need it. I appreciate that but, I want a husband and wife relationship which means intimacy. When I run into him at our daugthers house he directs his conversations to her. Like I am not in the room. But , when I call him he answers hi how are you doing. And, it seems like he is smiling at the other end. I have gotten used to being without him after all this time and want the divorce. But, sometimes I feel that maybe he is just not in his right mind. And, maybe I shouldn't go ahead with the divorce. But, I cannot run everything like in the past where he just went along with whatever I said then didn't follow up on it.
