Yes turns out she had a boyfriend before I was moved out. She did try to hide it from me until about October and then I just called it out. No, she is not bringing him, I asked and stated I would be bringing my friend, she said she was fine with it but wasn't bringing her dude.

Funny thing is she leaves the room when he calls because I see my son daily so I have a lot of contact with the XW. I talk normally in front of her. I guess she is just use to sneeking and will take a while for her to get over it. I go through bits where I digress, but for the most part just put my son's feelings and always his needs first and more often than not any silly stuff just rolls right off.

I miss the folks her too, problem is reading this stuff is hard for me on a consistent basis. People hurting so much, I seem to handle the weight of my world on my shoulders just fine, but if I add someones elses, something tells me rather quickly it is too much to handle.

I would like to promise I will be around for a while but I am in the process of looking to purchase a home. So I will drop when I can and look for ping. Maybe I should use the other site more but I can't stand all the notifications all the time and haven't been on in weeks. Anyway take care brother I will drop by for as long as I can.


Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!