I did do a little anti-dbing the other night. I called her on her attitude. She started getting pissy and I told her Ya know three months ago you were crying and telling me you don't know why you treat me so awful. I told her she needed to find the answer to that.
She started to cry little. Then after a couple of minutes later acted as happy as can be and was joking around with me.
Now she a button pushing control freak again.....normal for where she's at I guess.
I'm sure the other night had a lot to do with it.
If demonstrating self respect is anti-DBing someone has been taught wrong.
I am an advocate for men not taking the sh*t we women dish out, MLC or not.
If you handle things right, and respectfully, you'll get a hell of a lot farther than if you were to flip out too.
