Just thinking of you kat, what movie did you gals watch ??? I'm a kind of G-rating guy, I do like the adventure/suspense type movies but give me a good G rated movie and I'm happy. Check out My Dog Skip or Inn of the Sixth Happiness
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08
Just thinking of you kat, what movie did you gals watch ??? I'm a kind of G-rating guy,
Then do NOT check out the movie we watched last night!!! It was Best Friend's Girl. I think it had more cuss words than any movie I've ever seen. I prob. learned some new ones. I think it would have been funnier without all the swearing, b/c sometimes it was pretty unrealistic, I mean does anyone talk like that in real life??? Karen
I hope not!! There was another Kate Hudson movie I really liked. I saw it 2 years ago with my Danish sister it was Skeleton Key. I have been wanting to see it again and I know D10 is in to that kind of stuff with me. Of the movies that are out of course I wan to see the 2 chick flicks but also Taken and Push. I saw Coraline with the girls as an early Valentines. It was pretty good. We should probably get the book.
kat
PS I forgot to mention my friend came and helped me put the tire back on, so everything I needed to get done this week got done! Whew!!
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I was so exhausted from the stress of this past week, I know I drifted off for a few minutes during the movie with the girls! After my parents dropped off the boys on Saturday I must have slept for at least 2.5 hours!! And yes, I was still able to sleep that night.
Ex is being stupid. He was asking if he shouldn't be able to write off part of the property tax and interest paid on the house. Ummmmm, big no. In the divorce decree it became my responsibility. And when he filed B, the mortgage companies L's hopped in and said I owed such and such amount in Lawyer fees even though I hadn't missed a payment! His L sent in the divorce decree saying that ex isn't responsible for it, so that put the nail in the coffin. He gets to claim none of that on his taxes. period. Not very nice of me but I hope he has to pay because of all the choices he has made. I need to see a little karma!
Also don't know what he was thinking but he buzzed off his hair and shaved off what stubble was on his chin. He looks so not good. He has lost it I think. Oh well, not my problem.
This week has some things I have to get done too, but nothing like this past week. I just have to keep hopping.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Also don't know what he was thinking but he buzzed off his hair and shaved off what stubble was on his chin. He looks so not good. He has lost it I think. Oh well, not my problem.
kat
I think it's that they don't think much!!! Or normal type thoughts anyway. Sounds like karma's already doing its job!
I don't know what it is, but all the stuff I've been reading for my Bible study this last couple weeks sounds horrible for H. Adulterers, cheaters, liars, don't wind up with a happy ending. That kind of makes sense. I just try to stay way away from the drama and craziness.
Ok my to do list this week is: find job and find house and start moving! I think it beats yours. But I wouldn't mind losing on that one!!! Karen
Isn't it my turn to lose?? Never thought I would gladly say that but I think it is true. I just have to cash out a CD, figure out some stuff about my annuity and then once I get my tax refund spend it all!!
It is hard for me because I have been trying to save for this and that and of course for an emergency but now I have to get rid of all of it but $100 by Feb 25th which is B filing day. then on the 26th right back to saving like crazy mode!!
I feel so much guilt but know at the same time it is my only option. It is my do over and I will have soooo much less to stress about.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Well I may make you happier about my "progress" still. Ex wanted copies of the kids "college" fund statements. He wants to start contributing himself in the next 6 mths to a year. However he wants to combine the funds and watch what I do with the funds.
I am the Custodian on the accounts. They aren't 529 plans but just custdial accounts that I have set up with college being the intended purpose. I told him that I have spent alot of time untangeling our names lately and I don't want to mix them up again. I felt it was better for him to start his own for them and then he can make decisions on those funds.
For a few minutes there I felt like he was trying to control what I do. I guess he subtley had been doing that for some time and of course controlling the course our marital ship took. He didn't start these accounts and he didn't try to cut corners here and there to try to fund them, though yes, it was "our" money. I never discussed even starting them with him, since he never took interest in such things.(Red flag right there folks!on my part as well as his).
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I told him that I have spent alot of time untangeling our names lately and I don't want to mix them up again. I felt it was better for him to start his own for them and then he can make decisions on those funds.
Karen