Just wanted to give you some words of encouragement. I totally know how you feel. H and I were together since high school and also know each other for 15 years. I too thought that we had our share of problems but we had a good relationship. Traveled alot, was relatively successful. But H had an A, got a child with OW (we also struggled with infertility which has been really hard on me) and has been lving with OW since we separated 5 months now. It is definitely a hard thing to deal with, especially with family and friends feeling like its over for H and I. Anyway, hang in there. I find DB a little hard but we have to keep trying.
