Sunday night when my H left he said he would come over and spend the night on Monday. So, last night I had a meeting and got home after 9:00 (my kids were at their dad's). I hadn't heard from my H all day so I was kind of surprised to find his car parked in the garage when I got home. I came in and he was doing his best to make himself at home. We talked for a bit and watched a little TV before going to bed. It was really nice to cuddle up with him for a while since it was a cold night. He usually says he doesn't sleep well here...he complains about the heater making noise when it comes on and it makes him think it is raining. I would think he would be getting used to it...hopefully he will soon.
My H got up really early this morning. He got ready then kissed me goodbye and told me he would call me later today. I wished him good luck in court today.
I do see that my H is trying to move thing forward at the moment. I can't tell you how much I appreciate his efforts...I realize this isn't necessarily easy for him. I think the C will be pleased. I do have to remember that my H may back off again...I still need to keep my expectations in check.
There has been no talk of Valentine's Day. I did get my H a gift but I don't expect him to get me anything and I will let him initiate any plans. Last year all he did was send me a text wishing me a happy VD day...so he wouldn't have to do much to out do what he did last year.
