I'm really hung up on her statement last nite. It's really frustrating
She sees how I'm a much better person now and will be a great father. She just can't get beyond the past to see me as her husband.
Patience. Just keep doing the things that are positive for you and she is noticing. In the present keep working on being the best CIPA for yourself. She can get past it you have to wait for her to do it herself.
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Is this the kiss of death?
NO. Stop thinking things are permanent. Mandatory reading for you - Look up "Learned Optimsim" by Martin Seligman. It will help you. You can handle it.
Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
