Hi PM, detach detach detach. I have been in No contact with H for about 3 weeks now. It is hard but it has made me more peaceful. Does that make sense.
I do find that I still think about what they are doing, where they are going and at night I find it difficult BUT not dealing and talking to him it is easier on my soul.
I do have to e-mail him this week about some financial stuff and I am sure I did a 180 with him by receiving the D papers yesterday and not calling him. I wanted to but will not do that "more of the same behavior". I know it must be driving him crazy.
You are second guessing yourself all the time with your H. That is normal. I feel like you -- one day I know I will hold on; the next I am questioning myself. I made a goal - my bomb day is 7/08, even with D happening I plan on holding on till end of year and evaluate then. Then at least I could hold myself to that goal.
Good funny movie -- New in town with Renee Zwielger and Harry Conick. This woman that played Blanche stole the whole movie. Very lighthearted and I was LOL. In movies now.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
