I'm really hung up on her statement last nite. It's really frustrating

She sees how I'm a much better person now and will be a great father. She just can't get beyond the past to see me as her husband.

Is this the kiss of death? Is it like people we just dating saying they just want to be friends? Is it her easy way of telling me to get over it?

I know I just need to focus on just me but it's hard when I think of my 2 boys.


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13