Love the tree analogy. I think the the branches on his side were toppling us over a long time ago!!

I won't be 100% dependent again either. I was raised by my parents that being a wife/mother was my duty and my job. I still believe that, but I invested my entire happiness in him. HIM! A man who is so uncapeable of happiness on his own.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!