Ciao cara, I am not sure STBX is sad...just a tad melancholy. Yes, it probably has something to do with D8 perhaps letting it slip that the old man is talking to strange women. STBX asked if I had lost weight and who dresses me? Meaning I guess that I looked good. By the way Gyps, no way in hell that i can utterthose words you suggested....to anyone.

bonjour Maria, I think i know the answer....what happened was that my STBX stepped over the line (maybe yours as well). Her morales / beliefs were not strong enough to keep her from straying. Bottom line, selfishness and wanting something new, won the battle. Maybe it is a sign of the times..."it's not working anymore, just get a new one".


hello Ali, not sure if the eclipse in leo had anything to do with any of this but stbx has been a little different in the last week or so...may be the stars or maybe what i mentionned above. Either way, in the grand scheme of things I am not really sure it means anything at all. At best, I may feel a little better about myself by imagining a certain regret on her part. At worst I can't help but feel a little sadness about my path so far.

I am in control of today and maybe tommorow....