SC so glad this turned out to be a better evening in the end. Yes I TOO have that faulty door, but after a year and a half of rejection and the same old stuff I finally got it, that was when I turned and decided to leave h alone, no more ?'s, it was months later that he saw he could talk with me.
I am just trying to help, since I see so much of myself in what you are doing. Yep I did it all! Trying to save you some time and pain, but you will get this eventually. We all do!
Hugs!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"