My first step out of Newcomers

[Can it work]

Davidswife, PM, thanks for your replies. To answer the one question you both asked. I'm not going out to make my W jealous. I want to go out to enjoy some time with friends and to take my mind off the fact that I'm single on V Day. I know she'll find out whether I tell her or not because there's bound to be a few of her friends out and they will report back to her. The only reason I thought about telling her is because I have absolutely no intention of getting with either of the girls who have asked me out and I don't want her to think that I am going to be. I'm scared that if she thinks I'm doing it then it's ok for her to do it and start playing the field again. That's something I want to avoid for as long as possible. I'm really not ready to hear that she's been with someone else. It's a confusing situation so I'm at a loss as to what I should do.

That's quite relevant to your other points too PM. My W always had an active social life and a load of single friends. She won't have Wee Man every second weekend and will therefore be free to do as she wants. That's why I suspect that she will be having fun and enjoying her time as a beautiful, young, single girl. Her friends will make it their mission to try and make her have a good time. I just worry what's going to happen with her when the alcohol starts flowing. Once the inhibitions are out the window, some guy will take advantage of her and it's going to destroy me finding that out.