Exposing at EA

[Still Waters]

I emailed my W last night, using the message I posted above along with Puppy's suggestion to come out and ask her if she's willing to work on the marriage. No response yet, but I know what it's going to be: "I need space, time to heal, to forgive myself, to get some clarity, blah, blah, blah." So, if that indeed is her response, is it safe to assume that the affair is still going on? Yep.

Either way, anything short of her committing to work on this and I'm dropping the rope. I already exposed the A to my W's sisters, who were shocked, outraged, and deeply hurt (my W had been lying to them too for months) but who knows if they'll do anything about it. I may do one last tug on the old rope and expose the A to my W's dad, but that will be it. After that there's nothing else I can do but go on with my life as if my W had moved to Mars. Or is it Venus? I can never remember. It's more like she moved to Crazytown anyway.