My Sad WAH Story: Is there Hope?

[RobD70]

How am I supposed to deal with this?

I just know H will be delivering D papers for me to go over and sign.

I'm going to loose it.

I don't care how strong you are, I don't want this and I have no idea how to deal with it.

How can he do this to us?

This is all so very terrible.

When my W told me she filed I actually felt relieved. I thought I was going to break down so I was a bit surprised how I felt. I think it just p!ssed me off so bad that she did it that I just got angry. I also felt that I no longer had the stress of trying to save the M anymore. I did everything I could so now it's in the W hands, my job is done and I just need to look at for myself and not worry about her anymore.

If he does this remember it is he that is ending this and he'll have to deal with the guilt of splitting his family. Of course it's never truly be over since you have children with him. Once you really drop the rope and not only stop talking to him but stop caring as well you'll see a change in his behavior. He may not "think" he wants you but rest assure he doesn't want you running away either. He knows you ain't going anywhere so that doesn't worry him but if he thinks you stopped loving him and will move on he'll flip out. That's not easy to pull off however.