I don't know...I just read his newcomer thread and I don't get the whole "you are just trying to keep her down" thing.
For me, the instant she pulled the "abuse" card, all bets are off and he has no choice but to protect himself by hiring a PI and documenting the truth...not her version of it.
I must have missed that (that's the problem with posting on two different forums). If that's the case, and now reading his post above, I have no problem with his approach.
