IMO, as long as the boys are not in any real danger and she is conscious then she needs to deal with the choices she made. She made the choice to be a single parent, right? She decided that your support in raising the boys on a constant basis wasn't needed. She'll have to learn to handle the situations that arise. Now, if she were completely incoherent with a raging fever and unable to care for them at all then she should call you as you are their father. Otherwise, too bad, so sad.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!