Hi CIW. We will see what happens. He is still very distant. One of few things could happen. One - He will still be absent from my S' life in which case he has to ask himself why he is this way. Two - he could be absent but miss being with him. Three - he will be around my son all week and feel a deeper connection to him. Four - he will be around my son but will not enjoy himself which means he has a problem with parenthood. I am hoping for option three.
I don't know anymore. Today, I am thinking that he is acting 'his true self' and therefore this situation is hopeless. I sway back and forth, not knowing if this sitch is salvageable. I can save myself but cannot save my H, therefore cannot save M.
I need to detach more.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
