Well, I finally decided that you could lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. As long as he thinks it's all you, I don't think it makes a hill of beans of difference if he sees an IC of not. He's just going to hear what he wants to hear, anyway. I guess it doesn't matter if it is about counseling of control, when you gen down to it. He isn't going to do it, anyway.
OK, that was pretty negative, but as you know, I've been living the same sort of thing, and that's where I ended up.
