I just want to clarify something here...your W doesn't HAVE control...it just feels like it. She cannot control you, it just feels like she can. You need to be your own man and show that she cannot control you. Who wants a partner they can pussy whip?

And as for the illegal alien bit...don't go there. I can guarantee your W will suspect you and hate you for it. It's one thing to demand she shows her respect for you by cutting off contact with OM whilst it is quite another to do that which is you trying to control her.

Make sure your MC is pro M as many are not ( stupid tho' that sounds).

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength