Another Wife Hit With the Bomb #10

[Silent Chrleader]

....., "you can try to push me away all you want, hasn't really worked yet, I'm still here and this ring is still on my finger"..I said, "but I'm tired of all of the crap and that's why if you need to go then go ahead".......but to stand there, look him in the eye and mean when I said I didn't "need" him felt good because, tho I still love him, I am not (like we said earlier) going to be codependent on him or anyone again.....

You go, Girl!!!! I can sooooo relate!!! Sometimes you just need to speak your heart no matter if it's "good DBing" or not! Of course, I've been known to put my foot in my mouth on many an occaision so perhaps I'm not one to judge......but I still think it's a good empowering thing to stand up for yourself!!

You are a strong and intelligent woman, and will be just fine!

Remember to be kind to yourself!!

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