<<<I asked her if she wanted to talk to a IC, she said not at this time.
Sounds like your W has been talking with my H. Is IC similar to torture in their mind ???
You sound good considering.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
