My Sad WAH Story: Is there Hope?

[Silent Chrleader]

......I've been pretty pathetic these last 2 days. I just worry that I've really screwed things up, and there isn't a chance for us. Then I wonder if I really want a chance for us. This is so very confusing. .....

Hey, MIP!!

I could have written these exact same words many times over throughout my sitch. I am the worst for second guessing, lack of patience, fortune telling, assuming the worst......you name it, if it NOT PRODUCTIVE, I've probably done it!

This is a very painful process that we are all going through. But, it is doable. And the key, I think, is to be kind to yourself. Become your own best friend. You are a beautiful, warm, loving, faithful, compassionate woman! Don't forget that!

And remember, we only have to live one day at a time. In fact, we all often make the mistake of ruining today by lamenting over yesterday, or worrying about tomorrow. Today is all we really have, and all we need to do is put yesterday aside and let tomorrow take care of itself. Life is what happens while we are busy thinking of other things. Take the time to enjoy the moment! It's where life really is!

Sounds simple doesn't it? Yep, it's simple, but it sure ain't easy!!!!

Hang in there!

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