It seems to be working! Sometimes....

[sandycay]

Sandy,
I am sorry. It seems a lot of us had a hard time this past weekend. Do what you need to feel better. Stay still. Things will happen the way they are supposed to.
xxx
K

Hey K

Yea I've been reading your post too. This is a difficult time for us but he hasn't had any indication that he didn't want to be here working on the marriage with me. He just feels enormous guilt because he does have these "lingering feelings and says that it doesn't make any sense." He also told me that "he's not going anywhere and that I have been such a good wife to him over the last year and that makes it even harder than ever to understand."