You are in a new place! I hadn't read your thread in a while, but you are in a NEW place! Very good! Sounds like your W has taken notice too!
Tawnya and Silva: I really like your two last posts! They make so much sense to me! I desperately needed to give my W more freedom to things on her own. But her spending almost no quality time with me anymore to feed her need for independency caused my "love tank" to go empty. That in turn, fueled me even more to drive her back to me. I basically toppled the tree by leaning to her side with all the heavy branches! Interesting picture!