So Friday comes around and I take "her" car to work. She has to work early and texts me that she has a ride to and from work so I don't have to come home early from work to let her have the car. Normal Friday night... kids spend the night at friends houses and I have the place to myself for a little while. Later that night... she comes home from work. Now I happen to know what the OM drives...hell I know where the bastard lives and works but I digress. I see the lights in the window and check it out. By this time she is on her way in the house. Car pulls away....
She was dropped off by OM
I'm pissed.
*insert random thoughts about chest thumping, manly things that involve baseball bats and tire irons... * But I know that if I act on those impulses it could lead to police, jail and most importantly , never seeing my kids again. Besides the BOM never stepped foot on my property. Road only.
So she comes in and I figure out that she is pretty well lit. I ask who dropped her off..."it was OM" I say "oh how nice. You don't think that having your boyfriend drop you off at your home is a bit low?" "well was I supposed to walk home" she says. ride your broom I thought BUT didn't say. "You could have called me" (she knew the kids weren't home) and she says...again "and what was I supposed to do walk home?" Ohhh a redundant drunk! At this point I see its going no where so I wrap it up... "You could have called" I said walking away. She proceeds to walk through the living room bumping into a few things, changes her clothes in the bed room and comes back out to her normal spot on the couch and passes out in about 15 mins. Before she passes out I ask about doing the taxes at HRB on Saturday rather business like. She mumbles her answer and goes off to Lala land. Saturday she is hung over. I'm pretty sure she spent some time worshiping the porcelain god. Showers up and we go get our taxes done. We stop at the local gas and go joint and she gets us smokes and something to drink. She gets herself a gatorade and OJ. Now she doesn't EVER drink gatorade unless she's hung over.. heh Nothing more is said about the OM dropping her off. She is nice to me the rest of the weekend including our S10 blue and gold dinner on Sunday.
So yeah there must be a boundary there but like Punk told me..I'm the bad guy either way if I do something or say something about it to her. But I could loose what little respect I have with her. Things that make you go HMMMMM???
Gman Me 40 W 30 kids B 11 B 10 D 8 Been here off and on since 06. PA Confirmed Dec 08.. With God, anything is possible. Do or do not there is no try. Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...