Dawn....thanks so much. Clearly she is an angry woman who releases this with verbal abuse and emotional intmidation.

To all my friends:

Tonite, D5 asked me to come up to her room 'and talk on the bed'. She began talking to me about divorce...almost as an adult and, for the first time, started to tell me that 'it is not going to be good for her."

It was not easy keeping a straight face.

It was not easy keeping my eyes from welling up.

It was not easy...to find the right words...to comfort...my beautiful daughter...my gem...my girl.

I now pray to G-d for strength.

I quote again from from my favorite movie Gladiator..."my marriage lays bloodied and cleaved in a field" and..."My wife did her job well".

I will not miss her.

However, three years post bomb, I will soon be facing the inevitable: the finality of D and the separation from my children.

I will grieve the latter.

I hope and pray that you will have patience with me...especially my BetterMen.I may need more than ever.

I am preparing to lose time with my kids.

I will not miss my wife. She died a long time ago.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;