Should I get her around her family and ask her where she was, allow the lies to build, and then pull out the evidence?
Should I go to her family behind her back?
Should I purchase a billboard on the side of the road after setting up a website discussing her affair?
How do you expose this - and more importantly I am not going to expose or discuss prior to the right time legally. I want her to be shocked by the filing and wondering what evidence I do have. I want the foundations of her fantasy to be shook.
Why don't you just sit down and talk to your wife??