{{{JD}}} Glad you had a good evening with the kids..that is always a blessing to get some extra time
I agree with Silva and SD..we DO the work and it's so good that we can learn to not be codependent..it's funny, I had read that line from SD and Silva earlier while I was at work, but didn't get to respond then. But, on the way home, I was thinking about that and was saying out loud to myself "I will NEVER be that way again, no matter how my marriage turns out..even if hub came back tomorrow, I would NEVER be 100% dependent on him again"..because, like we all said, we lost at least part of ourselves somewhere along the way. I know our spouses think that as well, the difference is..we don't feel like we have to run away from everything to find that part of ourselves again..
Tawnya
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