snodderly, I had not spoken to my x husband for right at 5 days until this morning and I phoned him about son and a couple other things. It was sweet and short. I had to be at a custody hearing for my nephew this morning and received full custody. I spoke with my xh when I returned home to let him know I had gotten custody, I mentioned that I was scared and he said "you are a good mom", you will be fine. I told him I would drop off his mail and I did. We spoke as he was leaving for gym. This was the conversation: I told him that things had and that I have moved on (intimately). (I havent done this but wanted a reaction out of him...I know this has to be against the rules. Anyway he said hatefully "so how did that make you feel?" He said he already knew and that our son knew about it and mentioned it to him also. (what a lier, nothing happened) Anyway he walked away and then turned around and said "dont degrade yourself". I said, "you mean like you did, and he said yes, men can get away with this but not women." we agreed to be friends but he was upset, it was real obvious. I take that he still has feelings for me or why would he get so upset? Anyway what do you think?
