Remember the OM is no just sitting there waiting for you to convince her to come back. He is doing everything possible to get her to chose him!!! He invaded your territory and took your wife....don't be like the French and surrender...fight!!!
You know her way better than he does....he just found a weakness and exploited it. But you have a 15 year history...he has a couple of months.
Find the OM's weakness and go after it. Is he married? He is a co-worker so exposure there might make this Love Affair less wonderful. What about your wifes family??
Exposure work's!!! It shines light on affairs and the coakroaches tend to flee back into the walls.
