I think the FB thing is a nice offer that shows his transparency. If he's not afraid to add you on as a friend, then so be it. There's nothing wrong with it.
Hang in there Mel. I wish my W had your tenacity and perseverence after her A. It sucks being in limbo.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.