I've got to agree with Mel.

Right now you're mad as hell and believe me, I've been there to.

I would wait till all the rage gets out of your system and honestly think. Do you really want the marriage still? If the answer is yes, then you have to move past the A. What were the issues with your marriage? Start from there.

No amount of badgering from her parents, you or even your pastor will pressure her into changing her mind. Ask anyone here. Look at the people who have had 2 or 3 A. They'll all tell you the same.

Put yourself and the kids first and try to let it go. If you let your rage consume you, your kids are going to be the ones that ultimately suffer. Be there for them and concentrate on them.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER