The Unfaithful Wife - That's Still Me #3

[K4D]

Don't be to concerned about the facebook page. My W has one to. I created one and sent her an invite. She never responded. Then she created one and didn't tell me. A friend told me about hers. I asked her if she wanted to be friends on each others page. She said she didn't know. I resent an invite. She never responded again and then said no.

Right now your H is living another life. His facebook, OW, etc. He is in his own world and you are on the outside trying to look in. Its a toughy.

Don't worry about the page. Right now worry about what you can do to help yourself grow detached, but still be available should things turn around. I know why you are analyzing July so much. Thats when you might see something big happen. But its also eating you up wondering about it.

Try not to dwell on July. Even if OW leaves in July, the problems aren't going to be fixed over night. You could be looking at many more months of him figuring things out after she is gone. He has got to get control of his drinking for sure. Your kids don't need to be around that constantly and neither do you.

Keep faith in God. He knows what is best and has a plan for everything. Stay strong. Keep reading that book. I need to get it.

Kevin