Ok, now you know something that you can deal with. Usually the initial consultation is info finding for the lawyer to let the person know what will happen, make it clear why they are there, etc. very concrete. It can be helpful to have the info. it also makes it very real and if you arent' prepared - scared! Unfortunately, lawyers are also good at moving things along, on the other hand they are also good at knowing if the person is on a fishing expedition or not.
So have you decided how you will deal with this? Whether or not you think it is good for her or just a thing she is doing... you do not get to control her. You can convince her by your behavior and detached but caring comments how you feel without crowding her. DId you respond to the text? How about something like," got your message,hope you find out what you need to know. Call me if you want to talk." or "got your message, let's talk afterwards, have some ideas of my own to help with the situation." It may peek her curiosity and let her know you are willing to discuss things openly.
Let me know what you decide. And again, use this site to learn and journal.
