So my wife was away for the weekend with her girlfriend and daughter's at a basketball tournament she had previously committed to go to.
She has completely started to reconnect with me both by texting and by phone calls. She intiated a long text conversation on Friday afternoon that was both playful and extended. The more I GAL and have started to reconnect to my former independance the more she reaches out and cheerleads. SHe has been reaching out all weekend....
Don't get me wrong...I don't think anything has radically changed but the moer I apply the DBing the more she is drawn back in.
She even asked if I wanted to go watch one of these tournaments in March?
OKay Puppy...Mel, 25...You know my whole story...I am moving into my own place this weekend. Not going back wards on that. Your observations, thoughts. My DB coach Joann is extremely positive on all of this. I am taking it with a grain of salt..
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Jeff
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
