You didn't do this 2 years ago because you weren't ready. You didn't do this even 2 weeks ago!.
You have found the place and you are now starting to understand.
I have to agree with SD, no-one should be co dependent. I was and we both suffered because of it.
I also agree that they have walked away think that they have left things behind. I know now that it doesn't work that way.
At the end of all this, WE are the ones that have done the work, we have looked inside and seen what we were and where we were. Now we are in a position to take this knowledge into the world and in my case, just try to help others to get there.
MWD says that in the DB book. They take their unhappiness with them, the sad thing is we can't tell them that, no matter HOW much we love them.
I am SO pleased for you JD. (an a little jealous that you are within a few pounds of your ideal weight..grrr..lol)
