\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

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The wife called a little while ago. She wants to take everyone out to dinner since it's my SS's last night in town. I told her that I had set up marraige counseling and is she still willing to go. She said yes but she's pretty much made up her mind. Said she just doesn't have that feeling anymore. Asked me how I was doing, I said fine. She said I knew you'd bounce back--really cheerfully. I said I'm glad you think that--I know, I know, I probably shouldn't have said that. She said she was going to spend the night in billeting again. I said I thought you were going to spend sometime with me when I got back. She said I know, I'm a shitty person, aren't I. I said well you feel the way you feel for a reason I guess--I just don't know what it is.

I tried like hell not getting into this relationship talk but it was hard. I faltered and asked her how she could know in one day that it was over---she said she just knew.

I'm not giving up hope but this is not looking promising right now to me. I really hope the marraige counselor can provide a way for her to see things differently. It's almost like she is afraid to be around me for right now because she doesn't want to talk about us and maybe she thinks she'll change her mind? I don't know, still very confused and upset.

Any input???