I don't like it either...not one bit. But my hands are tied. I don't know what to do or what I CAN do. No one else seems to know either.
I even asked my L if there was anything that I could do to keep her away from my D7 and he told me that unfortunately there isn't.
Right now H takes D7 like he is supposed to (every other weekend and once a week) and every day H talks to OW and won't even give it a break while he has D7 to reduce D7's involvement. Trust me, this has been the root of quite a few of our arguments. I have told him that OW should at least have the respect to let him have his time with D7 WITHOUT calling him all the time while he has D7.
It is almost like OW feels as though she is competing for H's attention when it comes to D7 but yet does everything she can to make D7 like her. It makes me sick.
For some reason H locked me out of his account last night (cell phone). I know when I picked up D7 he had gotten a text and told me that it was a friend of his. OW has not texted him in months since her H read one of the text messages back then. I know this for a fact.
So I think that text was from OW so she did not have to call while I was there and whatever she said H apparantely did not want me to see it so he changed his password and username.
But who knows...I just don't know about him anymore.