So it's official, aliens have taken over my H and have turned him into a ugly green mean monster.
OMG, sometimes I think I don't even know how I love this man so much or why I even still love him. So with H's involvement with OW and his son coming from the A, H's immediate family who are very close with me and my family have not come to accept the child. Granted in hindsight I think we all are wrong for not accepting the child fully since its not his fault but I think H made it really difficult for us to embrace the child by continuing his A, especially so openly. In any event, H has been holding a lot of malice against his mother b/c of her support of me. And in Oct when H was living at MIL, he tried to have OW and her children to stay at MIL since they had no place to live. Of course, MIL being the respectable woman that she is, said hell no and that I am a daughter to her. H was pissed off and said (what I thought was only anger speaking) that if anything happens to his mother don't call him. He has since not really communicated with his mother. This weekend MIL fell ill from an infected gallbladder and had immediate surgery. H's other siblings did not call him but I thought that it was the right thing to do so I did. OMG, he was so mean-spirited and uncaring on the phone. All he said was hope she feels better. I even told him all his siblings who were at the hospital and he said that's nice. I quickly hanged up. Then I was there seeing MIL so sick, I got so pissed off and called H back to confront him about his poor behavior. He then answered the phone meanly and I didn't even get to say anything, but he said I'll call you back. My God, he didn't even know if something worse happen to his mother. This was a man who use to cry when his mother was sick and now he just doesn't care at all. It proves that he definitely can't give a damn about me if he can't care for his own mother.
Is this just crazy? Does a man really give up his wife and entire family over some a**. I really hope OW will be there when he needs someone. MIL would be so hurt by all this if she knew how H behave. I will not tell her byt H's siblings are all looking at how he didn't show up at the hospital. I know he will really live with regrets if he doesn't get it together. But how awful is his behavior. I want nothing to do with him right now!!
