Being able to live perfectly well without her is great for yourself. No one should be dependent upon another. But it may not get her back if she is doing the same thing. But in the end it is still the right path to take... there is something to be said about being self-supportive... it is an attractive quality. LBS should be self-supportive on their own before even considering dating (after the D is final esp. if you have kids). Forget what the WAS is doing - they are not healing, they are masking their problems when they walk out of a marraige to have an affair.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day
