I thought about "confronting" her about this during counseling
Sure that would be good, go ahead and make her defend herself. how about you be patient, calm and strong in what you are doing. Are you making the changes for yourself or so you will be noticed?
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but it feels like she's permanently closed her mind and heart to any changes. We'll see how it goes tonite.
Amazing how you know what she is thinking and how much energy and time you spend on it. You don't believe people can change by what you have written. So if it's permanent why bother? Focus on yourself.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.