WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 2

[confusedinpa]

Keep your chin up, you are actually doing fine so far. Confusion and indecision on her part are ok, it's a natural stage she needs to go through before believing things can be different. If she is determined to leave and she is no longer expressing confusion, you are in more trouble.

Spellfire,

Here is the confusing part - when she talks about this, she is so sure of her decision. In fact over the last 4 weeks, it changed from a "deciding on a chance of a chance" to "finding a reason to change her mind".

There are some actions that appear like she's conflicted, but there are fewer and fewer this past week.

I thought about "confronting" her about this during counseling - about how this past week she said that she recognizes changes that I have made, but it feels like she's permanently closed her mind and heart to any changes. We'll see how it goes tonite.

I appreciate your support