Thanks for confirming the intent of that email. It is easy for me to try to read too much into it.
I do like the grandchildren. You are right, I am not the delivery boy.
Best to continue trying to detach -- nothing there to attach to.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09