That's the problem right there. She said "she's always done what was expected of her". Who put those expectations there? Herself.

She puts expectations on herself that she can't possibly fulfill. Maybe she has an ideal image of what life is and again, those are expectations that she places on herself.

She has to truly understand what those are and what they mean to her. She seems to believe that you don't live up to her expectations and you shouldn't have to. She needs to see why she has those expectations. If not, no one she goes out with will ever fulfill her the right way.

Definitely sounds like a MLC to me.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER